Relearning to be Securely Attached
Fear has a way of convincing us that it deserves our full attention. Healing often begins when we discover there is a voice more trustworthy than our fear. Relearning secure attachment isn't about becoming fearless—it's about learning, moment by moment, to keep our eyes on the One who has never stopped holding us.
Why Trauma Persists During Custody Disputes & Coercive Control
Healing is not produced by the passage of time alone. It requires safety. When coercive control continues through custody disputes and institutional failures, survivors remain trapped in survival, often mistaking ongoing danger for an inability to heal. Exploring the roles of safety, ambiguous loss, and the unique challenges of navigating coercive control and family court through the lens of both faith and lived experience. Understanding can become the first step toward freedom.
How Coercive Control Impacts Children in Family Court | Christian Perspective
Family court should protect children, not require them to carry the weight of adult conflict. This article explores how coercive control and post-separation abuse can distort accountability, create systemic confusion, and place emotional burdens on children that God never intended them to bear.